what you shouldn't say if you wanna date a biker women

Although the number of women who ride their own motorcycles is growing , many biker women are still astounded at the reactions some people have when they learn she is a female motorcycle riders. Most of them are well-meaning, But that doesn’t mean they shouldn’t take a step back and reconsider their words. Here are a few “rules of the road” when it comes to communicating with women bikers:
DO NOT share your gruesome stories right off the bat of friends/relatives/mythical figures who have died in motorcycle accidents. It’s not helpful. And if you do, be prepared to hear about someone she knows who died a horrible death doing that thing you love.
DO ask her what make/model she rides. DO NOT ask her if that’s considered “a girl’s bike.”
It’s perfectly okay to ask her how long she’s been riding her own. But, DO NOT start a conversation with, “Do you ride that big ol’ bike all by yourself?” Because you’re bound to get this in return: “No, I have my big strong husband run along behind and push it for me.” Or maybe this: “Do you see a sidecar, Douchey?”
DO NOT chastise her for riding just because she has children. Anyone who has children could die stepping out the front door or driving their car, so don’t blather on about “greater responsibility.” DO congratulate her for showing her kids that life was meant to be lived doing things you love, and that it’s never too late to discover or learn something new.

So you wanna date a biker women, you should check the suggestion above. Or you may not get a chance !

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Why Do Women Ride Motorcycles?

The question many biker women most get asked, especially by other who dont ride, is why would woman want to risk her life getting on a motorcycle? It doesn't make sense, many men ride motorcycle as well, but men dont get asked. I think there are some reasons !

Freedom
Women today have fewer expectations placed on them when it comes to hearth and home. It is no longer a woman's primary function to keep the house and raise the kids. Women are expected to be out in the world, earning a living,  here's what getting on a bike can give you that nearly nothing else in the world can give you - a sense of freedom. It may be as short lived as a trip to the bank, but the feeling of freedom you get when you get on a bike and ride is nearly indescribable.It really is freeing from your day to day obligations, enjoying the moment, not thinking about bills or sending kids to college. Once you try it,  you wouldn't trade it for anything. It's your two-wheel therapy. Climbing on a bike is exhilarating. It's a rush like nothing else. And you don't have to climb a mountain to get that feeling. You just have to get on the bike.

Confidence
More and more biker women hate riding on the back of a bike, riding her own bike, It's a lot more fun being in control.
It takes a lot of confidence for a woman to get on a motorcycle and ride. They're big and powerful machines and women have long been taught that big powerful things are for men only. For a woman to take on something like a motorcycle, she must have a great deal of confidence in her own abilities. She needs to handle the bike and she needs to be knowledgeable about the bike. She needs to be able to function independently around the bike. If a woman has confidence, she can do this. But here's the thing. If a woman doesn't have the confidence to just jump on a bike, she can learn that confidence by learning how to ride. Many women are hesitant to ride if they haven't done it before. Some women take classes to learn the basics and by the end of the class, feel confident they can handle themselves. Other women rely on friends to help them learn. But overall, women ride motorcycles because it makes them feel free and confident about themselves.

Camaraderie
Women often begin to ride because someone they know is riding and they want to try it out. Sometimes women will have an urge to ride and will seek out a women's riding club to join so they won't have to ride alone. But motorcycle riding does for some women what book clubs do. It gives them a shared experience and it allows them to have a common bond with a group of women they can then come to call friends. Motorcycle riding builds friendships in ways nothing else can. Women who share a sense of adventure and a freedom of spirit can bond over motorcycle riding.

Women come to motorcycle riding for many different reasons. At the end, it doesn't really matter why you want to ride. It just matters that you do ride. Ride often, make good friends, and feel free. That's what makes riding special.

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